Wife Swap....Would you do it?
Whenever I see those shows, I always think, "My God, who would ever volunteer to do something like that? That looks miserable." But that was before I knew that you got 20k for doing it. Just think of what kind of bike you could get with that money!
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i can't stand those kind of shows. didn't watch the Bachelor 'triathlon' version either, but 20K IS a sweet bike. I'm looking for a wife now ;)
If you get on, don't forget to send some love to us Trifueler's ;)
Think about it this way:
Imagine the exact opposite of your family and that's what you'll get. I'm sure she'll be an obese woman who smokes cigarettes and lounges around the house all day watching soaps and Oprah. She'll make fun of your spandex, tease you about your commitment to fitness, and berate you for your BMI.
Then imagine what your wife will go through. The other husband will be a fat, smelly slob who has a pasty, hairy belly hanging out between a wife-beater and stained sweat shorts. He'll chain smoke as well, and his kids will resent their own existence.
Is two weeks of that worth $20k? :D
-Dave
Is two weeks of that worth $20k? :D
-The answer is yes! Why not? go for it. No permanent damage will be done. It'll be a fun experience and a good story.
Is it a full swap? I mean do you have to engage in "thorough" marital relations, including intimacy? Anyway I look at it the answer is a big "no" regardless of money.
how much of the $20K will be left after taxes?
me personally I wouldn't cause the producers want drama and it would be embarassing for me to have my family shown that way on national TV for that little money.
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My wife watches the show and I told her the other day they were looking ofr a triathlete family, but we don't have kids and I think they want families with children. My concern with show's like this is that you give them 100% editorial control and they can make anyone look very bad or very sypathetic all through clever editing. The results are a characiture of the people and not the people themselves. They all come across as extreme and a little crazy as it makes for good TV.
The $20,000 may be subject to the same kind of taxation treatement as game show winnings, so that' 50% right off the top. Rob, personally I would pass, it's a lot of trauma and drama and I can bet you dollars to donuts there will be many aspects of the final product you will be very dissatisfied with.
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Bryan
Of course it's 'effing hard, it's IRONMAN!
If I were married, I would kill my husband for even suggesting it...
Yikes, that show is still on? I wouldn't do it, I have enough stress.
Come ON!!!!!! 20K!!!!! That sounds like a hot new Tri bike for me. :D
Now on the real side......consider the nut job you could get in your home for 2 weeks. Maybe even prohibiting you from training because she thinks it´s "too much".
And also consider the fact of having your wife dealing with jerks.
I guess I wouldn´t do it! but it´s a lot of cash man.
But if you do it don´t forget to have your Trifuel hat on all the time.
Hyperactive Trifueler!!!! (I refuse to let the status go :p)
I've watched it a few times to try and figure out why anyone would do it. Now that I know you could get 20k out of it, it makes a bit more sense.
It's interesting though how each family will fight with the new mom in the beginning and then happily adhere to her wants in the end. Staged.
I guess as long as you tell everyone you know what the real deal behind it is so they don't think that that's your family's real persona, then the 20k "might" be worth it. But if you're only going to really get 10k out of it because of taxes, it's definitely not worth it. It should be at least 50k to be fair.
Are you still taxed on it if you donate it to a non-profit as soon as you get the check? If not, then it might be worth it.
And as we all know, money doesn't buy happiness. There should probably be a deeper reason for you to want to do it, rather than the surface reason of moolah. I'm not really sure what the deeper reason would be though.
-Toni
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I couldn't do it to my kids. I agree with Red that there is no control by you over how they are going to be edited to appear. It could cause problems down the road.
Survivor might be something to consider for the off-season.
Think about it this way:Imagine the exact opposite of your family and that's what you'll get. I'm sure she'll be an obese woman who smokes cigarettes and lounges around the house all day watching soaps and Oprah. She'll make fun of your spandex, tease you about your commitment to fitness, and berate you for your BMI.
Then imagine what your wife will go through. The other husband will be a fat, smelly slob who has a pasty, hairy belly hanging out between a wife-beater and stained sweat shorts. He'll chain smoke as well, and his kids will resent their own existence.
Is two weeks of that worth $20k? :D
this is probably not far off, given where television is these days...
unless you are the provocateur-type, i'd say no
I think if you're going to have a real "wife swap" it should include everything to make it realistic. You know, the wife has a headache or is tired, or the hubby can't find the Cialis. That's the real world, folks.
I'd say no. Think it messes with the kids too much - if it was just a couples thing might be different. But again, that is a lot to put kids through.
RV
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I would worry more about how this might impact your kids. It sounds like you and your wife could handle it no problem…could even be fun to act out the extreme end of a multi-sport athlete life versus a Krispy Kreme eating, video game addicted couch potato life…all for good television. But how old are your kids and how would it impact them? If they understand it’s all an act, then it might be fun for them, if they are younger and think it’s real…then no way would I put them through that. Just make sure you portray us triathletes in a positive light and plug Trifuel of course!
Actually, I wouldn't plug Trifuel. I wouldn't do it at all (for all the reasons already mentioned), but if you do, you don't know if you're going to end up being the mean character or the good character when the producers develop the episode. Without that advance knowledge, this might not be the kind of 'product placement' that is good for Trifuel or the sport!
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We declined. I just wanted to see what everyone else would do. I know they would make our family look like a bunch of lunatics.
There was a family a few streets over from us that were on the show about a year ago. We know them. They said that they wouldn't do it again.
Anyway, you might want to check your local listings in the next few months. I'm sure someone will accept. It might be entertaining.
I couldn't do it to my kids. I agree with Red that there is no control by you over how they are going to be edited to appear. It could cause problems down the road.Survivor might be something to consider for the off-season.
I would SO do Survivor! That looks like a blast!
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Bryan
Of course it's 'effing hard, it's IRONMAN!
:::::AP NEWS BULLETIN::::::
In a attempt to conquer the Fiji wilderness on the survival show Survivor Bryan Dunn has died of starvation and over exertion. After exhausting his supply of "gu"s on day 3 Bryan was forced to scavenge for grubs to eat on his training runs and swims, he was known to say you know after a few they start tasting like vanilla cliff shots just with more texture. He was found collapsed after having completed a 2 mile open water swim to the other camp and back and was on 14 mile of a 24 run around the island. The triathlon community will feel his loss dearly.
just teasing =p
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20k is not enough to do that--honestly. Thought about Survivor, and even the milllion is not enough to get me out there. Once that is taxed you are only looking at a fraction of the money--not worth starvation and not showering for a month plus (at least for me)
Make it 50K and I just might do it.:rolleyes:
Reality TV is anything but Reality.
I think I would do the "Amazing Race". It looks like fun, you can eat a meal and sleep in a bed at the end of the day. You also get to see the world. I think first prize is one million.
I have a nephew who did "Mr. Personality" a few years back... He's kind and sensitive,funny and one smart kid. Thet edited him to look look a putz.
Why watch that drivel anyway...? Reality is right outside the door...watching it happen to someone else doesn't make much sense to me.
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:::::AP NEWS BULLETIN::::::In a attempt to conquer the Fiji wilderness on the survival show Survivor Bryan Dunn has died of starvation and over exertion. After exhausting his supply of "gu"s on day 3 Bryan was forced to scavenge for grubs to eat on his training runs and swims, he was known to say you know after a few they start tasting like vanilla cliff shots just with more texture. He was found collapsed after having completed a 2 mile open water swim to the other camp and back and was on 14 mile of a 24 run around the island. The triathlon community will feel his loss dearly.
just teasing =p
LOL!!!!! :D
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Bryan
Of course it's 'effing hard, it's IRONMAN!
Dude for 20K I would be in...
Considering how much I depend on her for... 20k isn't enough, considering it takes a special person to put up with me.
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My wife and I were contacted by one of the producers for the ABC reality show "Wife Swap". You Know........ The show where the two wives from different families switch for two weeks while a camera crew is there to catch all the juicy drama and incompatible family dynamics.
Apparently they have been wanting to do this with a family of triathletes for 3 years. A friend of ours nominated us.
Would any of you do this? Wives out there?:confused: 20K is the honorarium.
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