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I have fallen off of the training band wagon for a number of reasons, some legit and others excuses...I crave getting back into shape and beginning a training regime again, but am feeling flabby and intimidated.

My question is this, how do you re-motivate yourself when you are feeling in a rut physically, emotionally, or otherwise?

If it was fun AND easy, everyone would do it!

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Tribro posted 2 years ago.

the motivational factor can be a tough one. I find if I just force myself to get out the door once I get going I'm fine. Example is just get on the bike, once I'm 15-20 minutes into a ride I'm stoked to be on it. Same with running. After getting a couple sessions under the belt the motivation will often come back.

I also go and watch races taped or live and that's inspiring. And of course I use Trifuel daily :) and read members blogs and race reports and that gets me going as well.

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PJT posted 2 years ago.

Do you have a training goal? If not, pick a goal. It could be completing a race of a certain distance, completing a race in a certain time, or something similar. Aim for something big & challenging, but within the realm of your present reality (e.g., if you've never done a marathon and run 11:00 splits in your 5ks, having "qualify for Boston" as your goal might not be the best idea--yet). Most important, it has to be a goal that will mean something to YOU when it's all done. It will help if your goal takes less than 1 year to complete, because anything longer could make you lose focus.

Write down your goal. If there are small goals you want to meet along the way to your big goal, write those down too. If you need to, post you goal here on Trifuel and let people here know how it's going. Ask as many questions as you need to. Get a plan for the training you will need to meet your goal(s). And then start training to achieve it. You'll be amazed at how much easier it becomes to train when you have a plan focused on a goal and every workout counts.

Realize that as you train for your goal there will be times when you still will feel flat and unmotivated. That's normal. You just need to keep your eyes on the prize. In the end, it all has to come from within, and there are no shortcuts.

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Anton posted 2 years ago.

Often a reason folks fall off the band wagon is due to overtraining.
Ya just get burned out and having to go for ANOTHER F ing run is the last thing you want to do.
PJT is so right...pick a goal, and yes,make it an easy one. Then pick another harder one...and start working your way back up.You build confidence that way.
Get a good plan for your goal..and you work the plan,don't let the plan work you. (In other words, don't let it run your life.)
Make sure your plan has down time and days off.
Try training with a few like minded individuals. Folks you like to be around and who don't turn every training session into a race or hammerfest.
Sounds like you are already starting to get re-motivated..that's why you're here!
Good luck!

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mherkissa posted 2 years ago.

Thanks for the tips! I was watching the Lifetime Fitness Tri here in MN and that is when I realized how much I missed training. Okay, not training, but the results of training. I am going to brainstorm some goals tonight like you all suggest and narrow them down.

Again, thank you so much!

Melissa

If it was fun AND easy, everyone would do it!

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deepbluex posted 2 years ago.

How topical. In the last 2-3 weeks, I've felt my motivation level drop considerably for reasons I am unsure of.

I am missing days of training and on the days I do train, I am lackadasical - doing the distances but without a clear focus and without reaching for the power and speed I should be.

I am eating more, feeding cravings without discipline, and feeling even a little bloated from doing this.

I'm not depressed or anything - I just feel I've been training for a long time and I'm starting to get that thousand-yard-stare and getting into a vague headspace where I'm losing the disciplined focus I had and I'm starting to drift off and spacing out. I know what my goals are and I have a training plan yet I don't feel I want it bad enough to follow through right now.

I hope it's just a weird temporary lull that will go as fast as it came but what do you all do when this happens?

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PJT posted 2 years ago.

deepbluex wrote:
How topical. In the last 2-3 weeks, I've felt my motivation level drop considerably for reasons I am unsure of.

I am missing days of training and on the days I do train, I am lackadasical - doing the distances but without a clear focus and without reaching for the power and speed I should be.

I am eating more, feeding cravings without discipline, and feeling even a little bloated from doing this.

I'm not depressed or anything - I just feel I've been training for a long time and I'm starting to get that thousand-yard-stare and getting into a vague headspace where I'm losing the disciplined focus I had and I'm starting to drift off and spacing out. I know what my goals are and I have a training plan yet I don't feel I want it bad enough to follow through right now.

I hope it's just a weird temporary lull that will go as fast as it came but what do you all do when this happens?

Now that's the tougher question. You have a goal & a plan, and you're still not feeling up to it. Tribro's advice of watching some motivational films and/or just getting 1 foot out the door is definitely good. And Anton's advice about finding other like-minded people is also key, so you may want to look into joining a tri club or find a training partner to do some structured workouts.

2 other ideas:

1. Take a 1 week (or even longer) break from training altogether to see if this is deep fatigue masquerading as low motivation.

2. Reassess whether your goals really mean what you thought they would to you when you started out. If not, it might be time for new goals.

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wilsondaj posted 2 years ago.

deepbluex

I feel your pain brother, I am midseason and most of my A races are done with the regionals left in sept.

I am fighting a lingering cold and an injury in my hip and struggling to stay on the program.

I am heading to a good friends wedding for most of a week, will probably just be running and even that will be at a minimum and I am thinking it will probably be good for me.

If these days off get me back on the program I will let you know, but I know how hard it is to take it easy or rest days.

this turned out to be kinda rambling but the point being a forced layoff of a few days is just what I need I suspect and maybe it would be good for you too ?

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wilsondaj posted 2 years ago.

deepbluex

I feel your pain brother, I am midseason and most of my A races are done with the regionals left in sept.

I am fighting a lingering cold and an injury in my hip and struggling to stay on the program.

I am heading to a good friends wedding for most of a week, will probably just be running and even that will be at a minimum and I am thinking it will probably be good for me.

If these days off get me back on the program I will let you know, but I know how hard it is to take it easy or rest days.

this turned out to be kinda rambling but the point being a forced layoff of a few days is just what I need I suspect

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deepbluex posted 2 years ago.

Honestly I think the heat has been getting to me. We're coming off a pretty sweltering heat wave over the last week during which I was just dying halfway through my normal training distances and feeling wiped well before I usually feel tired. It was a blow to the ego to see my times slow down as I kept on training. 30 mile rides turned into 12. 4 mile runs into 2. The swims sucked too because in the heat, everybody wants to dive into the pool all of the sudden and there's a lot of horseplay in the lap pool at the gym now. The few times I went to the ocean, it was nice.

Sounds like a lame excuse but boy it has been hot and painful to put the hammer down in triple digit temperatures - and that feeling of being reluctant to go outside is a big departure from my usual mood when I train. I wasn't expecting to turn into a big heat-wuss.

I'm halfway through my race schedule with 4 races completed this spring/summer and 4 more for summer/fall.

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dr_rios_ec posted 2 years ago.

Motivation some times is a tricky thing to find...
I read once this trick....tie your shoes....what that meant for me, is to find some particular movement that push you out to ride, run, swim, hit the weights...
Films are great...I really relay on them...like Tour the France DVDs, or past marathon tapes...some times I just go to my local and favorite endurance sport store, just to chat, talk, and enjoy others that are in the same train like me.
Movies, do the trick for me too, like Rocky Movies, American Flyers, etc.
Music...find a cool set of music that pumps you up....
Do you have fans??? I do....sort of...my family...and good close friends...talking to them for me always give me some motivation.
TRIFUEL.....my friend...on top of all there is plenty of material, of good posts...logs...articles here...and is 24/7 for us...
So take it one session at the time, one ride at the time, one run...one swim...
Train hard, have fun...and best wishes from this side...

-Santiago
"Man!! Defeat is worse than dying, cause´you have to live with it" -My Dad
"It ain´t about how hard you can hit...it is how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward"-Rocky Balboa

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MAggie posted 2 years ago.

Must be something in the water because I've been in a rut as well. I know part of it is the Texas heat and part is work because its gotten so crazy lately, the other part is me just not caring, no A races to look forward to and I've been so tired lately.

But I think I'm finally getting over it which is good, I did a 45 minute spin class tonight and it felt really good. :)

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tri_newbie_nerd posted 2 years ago.

Glad to hear that I'm not the only one suffering from a lack of motivation especially with the oppressive summer weather.

My last (planned) race of the season is on Sunday. I did my first Sprint tri two weeks ago and this one will be another sprint distance race. I kind of have this blah-zay attiutude like "well, I did it before, I'm sure I can do it again."

Of course, I have another really, really good excuse for lacking the motivation to train this week- FINALS! I have 9 exams this week, three this week. My brain hurts already!:eek:

P.S. And yes, I have spent all evening sitting on my bum studying- cruisin' the forums on Trifuel is the first study break I have allowed myself!

"You cannot run away from a weakness, you must sometimes fight it out or perish, and if that be so, why not now and where you stand?" ~Robert Louis Stevenson

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Atropos posted 2 years ago.

Just get up and go. Don't think about training or anything before you go or you'll talk yourself out of it.

I didn't do any training last month due to a very lingering sickness and a short vacation (which caused that sickness). 4 weeks of doing nothing was hard given the amount of training was was used to doing, but I found it hard to get that motivation back once I was feeling better.

Just getting out the door those first couple days is a chore, but get over that hump and you'll be on cloud 9. I'm more into training now than I've ever been, and that month break appears to have done more good for my fitness than bad (strangely enough).

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JohnieTri posted 2 years ago.

Try and find group runs, rides, or swims. I train alot by myself as I'm sure all of you do, but I really look forward to those group rides.

-Johnie

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Retrogrouch posted 2 years ago.

Work in some fun days where the goal has nothing to do with your training. I occasionally leave the bike computer at home and just cruise around the lake practicing bunny hops on my (road) bike.

I'm still not good enough to clear an obstruction, but it does bring back the same feeling of when I was 8 and tried to ride wheelies as far as I could.

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bluebirdbiker posted 2 years ago.

Find a goal, like weight loss, fitness improvements etc. and just go do it. Don't think about it and just go. The more you think about it the easier it is to talk yourself out of it. Start slow and go by the feeling. It's simple.

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Ultrarunner posted 2 years ago.

Sounds like a lot of people are in the same boat. Well, make room everybody. I live in Kansas City and we just came off of a 4 day heat wave 2 weeks ago (100+ temps. with 50-60% humidity)which I so graciously topped off with my first of 3 100 mile rides. The whole next week (last week) I was completely dead. Average bike speed was down1-2 miles per hour. And I just felt fatigued. I think it was a combination of the previous weeks training and overall overtraining. So, I took it easy for the whole week. I still swam, biked, and ran but I just went slow and took some extra time stretching. I find at times like those it is good to slow down and focus on getting back to the basics of form. Do this for a week or so and you will be craving the long rides, fast swims and runs.

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bouli posted 2 years ago.

I was ill there two weeks ago with a chest infection, but i was away for two weeks anyways, so i took a week off to clear the chest. rented a bike on the holiday the second week to keep the training up. then i got knocked down by some insane albanian idiot and he dragged me up the street attached to his car and my bike. so my arm's in bits, my thighs are bruised and my legs're pretty banged up. no bother, i'll stay off the bike for a few days.

then it got really bad. since i was off training practically for two weeks, i relaxed, had a few drinks with friends and got really drunk one night and did something very stupid, and now that's all i can concentrate on. I'm trying to think about my training and get going again, but with sore limbs, the worlds worst hangover (mentally that is) and quite possibly the biggest downer i've ever been on, it's not easy.

at least i'm not the only one feeling less than up to the task at the moment. nice to have somewhere to talk about it.

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Homebrewermike posted 2 years ago.

I find that I'm motivated by money. Thats what happens when you grow up in a big family with very little money.

When I bought a gym pass I'd go as often as I could to keep the cost per workout low. When I took karate classes I went every day. When I played golf I bought a season pass and the motivator was to be essentially playing free golf by June. My latest motivator was to pay about $500 bucks to enter the Wisconsin IM this year. Plus a new bike, several pairs of shoes, lots of clothes, etc. I'm extremely motivated by the clock ticking of the quickly approaching date and all the cash I've spent getting ready for it. Not to mention the several hundred people that I know will be cheering for me.

If you're motivated by getting your moneys worth like I am I suggest picking a race that you want to do and signing up on the day that the registration opens. Pick something with some real costs to it like a 1/2 or an adventure race.

It also helps to know someone whose doing the same event so you have a training buddy. It's usually rare that your buddy will be unmotivated on the same days that you are.

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deepbluex posted 2 years ago.

Money's a huge issue. This sport ain't cheap... I bet it's more expensive than golf but cheaper than horse or car racing.

Bike: about $1400 for two bikes - a $300 training beater road bike, $1100 tri bike.
Shoes: 5 pairs in the last year at around $60 average/pair = $300
Tri wetsuit: $300
goggles $18 (prescription lenses)
earplugs $5
socks $10
3 jerseys $100
3 pairs shorts $150
2 pairs bike gloves $50
3 bike levers, inner tubes, tires, seat bag, CO2 pump, floor pump $150
1 pair bike shoes $50
helmet $100
sunglasses $100 (prescription)
gym membership $450/yr
1 trunk mount bike rack $50
9 races @ $60/avg + USAT membership = approx $600
not counting travel costs...
this is approaching around $4K and that's not counting the gels, boxes of gatorade powder, sunscreen, and miscellaneous gadgetry, Ironman DVDs, and other nonsense that comes with it.

I justify the cost of a new pair of running shoes as "heart medication".

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Homebrewermike posted 2 years ago.

I can testify that a horse is definitely more expensive. My wife bought one in April ($13,500). She's buying a saddle today ($4000). Monthly room and board ($305). Riding boots ($600)

But if she wasn't at the barn all the time I wouldn't have the time to train. I'm free to spend as much as I need on tri gear assuming we can pay the bill at the end of each month. Works for me.