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I find that most people dont even know what a triathlon even is (I've explained it numerous times to the same people). The most widely incorrect comment that I hear in referring to a triathlon is:

"How did your run or marathon go?"

Im to the point where I dont even correct most people. What do you guys hear? :D

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Tribro posted 2 years ago.

I only hang out with Triathletes :)

No, really. I usually have to explain that they all aren't as long and grueling as Hawaii. Most assume when I say I do them that I do that one. Not even close.... Yet ;)

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nhaussietri posted 2 years ago.

"You actually do that thing in Hawaii" Once I explain that there are multiple distances they still think I am crazy just not as much :)

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CAcyclingFAN posted 2 years ago.

A relative of mine commenting on the amount of hours I put into training in all seriousness asked - "Are you getting paid for this?"

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dr_rios_ec posted 2 years ago.

I got the same comment by my grandma a few weeks ago....
She said to my dad that she is worried...because, I don´t go out much...as her other grandkids....and after she chat with my dad, she aproached me and said: "son...are getting paid for this...?"
Funny....very funny.
My friends...they just think I am nuts....big time....

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Triguy98 posted 2 years ago.

One lady at work when I was saying my fantasy was to qualify for IM World Chapionships:

"You're not big and strong enough to be an ironman. All the ironmen I know are bigger." I guess she tought it's a bodybuilding thing. It should be pointed out that she's likely about 100lbs over weight and cahin smokes. I doubt she knows any body builders to begin with.

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Tamara posted 2 years ago.

I get the same thing many of you do -- needing to explain that there's a huge difference between Ironman and my newbie sprint-hoping-to-complete-an-Olympice-this-year status.

The other really annoying comments we get are from my parents. My husband's a little older than I am, which doesn't thrill them. They are very overweight and unfit. Meanwhile, he's former military (Ranger, Special Forces) and is an incredible all-around athlete -- tennis, running, biking, triathlon. Yet, when I (admittedly) brag about how well he performs their comments are "Not bad for an old man" and things along those lines. So, to make a point, we're competing in an Olympic distance race a few miles from their home in Ohio this summer just to totally bring home the fact that although chronologically they are close to the same age as my husband but in terms of biological age they are lightyears apart!

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ht001 posted 2 years ago.

Speaking of odd comments from relatives...Two weeks ago, when I was explaining my Ironman training to my husband's step mom, I got a lecture about how women who exercise too much stop having their periods. This was just after she'd told me about the Kenyan's she saw on the PBS channel and how they run so much they look like stick men.

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o2Ripper posted 2 years ago.

ht001 wrote:
Speaking of odd comments from relatives...Two weeks ago, when I was explaining my Ironman training to my husband's step mom, I got a lecture about how women who exercise too much stop having their periods. This was just after she'd told me about the Kenyan's she saw on the PBS channel and how they run so much they look like stick men.

Haha - and if you were to already have kids how would that be a bad thing for both sexes? ;p "They look like stick men" hahahaha. Greatness.

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Adrian_Wong posted 2 years ago.

Hi ppl,

been awhile since i was last active in trifuel.

Yup i get similar comments from non-triatheletes. Like do u get paid..u r nuts....u need to socialize more and not spend time training...

Hahaha i even hv a colleague at work singing to me each time she sees me going for a run or ride in between my working hours..The song which she sings is "Lonely" by Akon. :D
Hahaha kinda cracks me up at times when she does that....

But i guess not everyone can understand why we triathletes do it! Well most impt is our loved ones know why we do it and we beleve in the reason why we want to do it.

So well. Train hard ppl..

P/S: Anyone in Trifuel going to do Iron Korea in August or IM WA Busselton in Dec?

Email me can? eng11116@yahoo.com.sg thinking of doing it and hopefully meet up with some fellow trifuel regulars.

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christri25 posted 2 years ago.

CAcyclingFAN wrote:
A relative of mine commenting on the amount of hours I put into training in all seriousness asked - "Are you getting paid for this?"

Some people will just never get it.... !

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kylie posted 2 years ago.

There is another kind of reaction I get to my "war stories" sometimes... awe and inspiration... and then the people start asking me more and more about tris and start run or biking or swimming (or all three) a bit more themselves.

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RV posted 2 years ago.

If the person is genuinely interested then - I'm happy to explain and clear up some silly misperceptions. Most people at work now just ask me what event I have coming up. When guys at work talk about golf or some other sport that I am not involved with - I am probably the one that asks the dumb questions. It is all just a matter of perspective.

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Dkidd posted 2 years ago.

yup, people at work give me comments like, "you ride your motorcycle to work right? - no, my bicycle - oh my, how can you ride that long with out taking a break?"
" you want me to follow you with an umbrella? it's 100 degrees outside!!"
but as kyillee, i have got some great reactions from some folks. I know about 4-5 people who started riding a bike around town and a couple to actually commute short distances after hearing my stories and seen the change (I lost about 50-60 lbs since i started this lifestyle).

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trigirl97 posted 2 years ago.

These are great for a morning laugh. I have had similar responses. The best was from my mom in the days leading up to my first half-Ironman. I was nervous and freaking out about the race and an upcoming move to Dallas.

She said, "Just try to stay focused on your little run coming up." I couldn't help but laugh. After coming to the event, I think she and my dad finally get it.

My partner and family are totally understanding as to why I am late to family gatherings and have to skip things to train.

But my co-workers are another story. They live on hamburgers, french fries and Diet Coke and give me odd stares when I decline their invitations to go do weights at lunch.

On the other hand, I have had very positive reactions from friends. In fact, I've encouraged several friends to take up the sport and they are now doing tris.

I think triathlon has turned me into a fitness evangelist. :D

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bluebirdbiker posted 2 years ago.

Yes, I too find that most people are a bit naive when it comes to understanding the world of triathlon. In a recent case, I was wearing my IMC finisher sweater at a bookstore just this past weekend and the storekeeper asked what I "finish" cause it says "FINISHER" on the back and the distances are written smaller, then told her that the sweater referred to IMC. She had no clue what it was. The first thing that she said was, "Oh, do you do that Hawaii Kona run race?" I started to explain, then the discussion opened up to include people in the store. They had no clue of the distance of IMs and other tris. After explaining it, their mouths were on the floor. It was funny how they acted.

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kuhar posted 2 years ago.

I get this one alot:

"You actually pay to be in that?"

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gfd posted 2 years ago.

As a newbie, who will not compete in a tri until an olympic distance event in July, who has been running marathons for the last few years I have noticed that , although negative comments are few, almost every one about how "crazy I am" and the "damage I am doing to my knees" comes from a person that does absolutely no exercize and has no real basis for their comments.

Most people react in a very positive way and a few of the people I work with have started running races and living a fitness lifestyle.

I have found that I use the negative comments for motivation and the positive comments usually lead to good conversations about running, swimming, or biking.

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bluetri posted 2 years ago.

o2Ripper wrote:
I find that most people dont even know what a triathlon even is (I've explained it numerous times to the same people). The most widely incorrect comment that I hear in referring to a triathlon is:

"How did your run or marathon go?"

Im to the point where I dont even correct most people. What do you guys hear? :D

I've never done a marathon in my life (someday I will). I've only done 10K's and triathlons. Nevertheless I ALWAYS get asked about the "marathon" I'm doing. Recently I've become a huge advocate and educator for triathlon.

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MaverickUNC posted 2 years ago.

When I was home for spring break I told my old babysitter/good friend that I was training for an Ironman. Her response: "You seem way too small to do an ironman...I mean those guys are like 350lbs...but I can't wait to see you on ESPN lifting giant stone pillars!" Obviously she thought that the Ironman was the World Strongman Championships...

I also hate it when people spell triathlon "triathalon" or "triatholon"....just one of my pet peeves.

The most frequent comments I get are from my friends in my ROTC unit. They always give me a hard time because when they go out on weekend nights I'm usually tucked in my bed, getting ready for a morning workout. I also get the all-too-common "you're gonna go sterile" or "look at those sexy shaved legs" when I'm on the bike. They don't make too much fun of me, though, when I beat them by 1.5 minutes on the two-mile run!

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Anton posted 2 years ago.

I get it all the time.."You a University of Maryland fan?" when they see my M-dot tat...when I explain they all say..."Oh I have a cousin who did an Ironman. It took him two Hours!"
Must have been a sprint.
Ran into a guy locally who said he "just finished IM California" He obviously ment 70.3.
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Tikal Dog posted 2 years ago.

I haven´t heard so many negative comments yet.... but a tiny thing that drives me mad is hearing people in the news or in the newspaper... say or wite

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deepbluex posted 2 years ago.

I kind of like Triathlonist.
I also like Triathlonaut, Triathlonotist, and Triathletist.

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rbreddin75 posted 2 years ago.

I hear from my family that they are proud of me (for sticking with it) - sounds kinda like an insult!? :)

I get to where I dont volunteer the information anymore in social situations.. unless Im around people who just cycle or swim or run (then I push them to TRI all three :)

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Tikal Dog posted 2 years ago.

rbreddin75 wrote:
I hear from my family that they are proud of me (for sticking with it) - sounds kinda like an insult!? :)

I get to where I dont volunteer the information anymore in social situations.. unless Im around people who just cycle or swim or run (then I push them to TRI all three :)

Hey that´s me too. I don´t speak about it that much with non-athletes. Maybe that´s why i don´t hear so much stuff.

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VTIRON posted 2 years ago.

The real insult is when your wife is way faster and people that know us ask me, " so how did your wife's race go?" So what am I, dog crap? I had to drive my wife to the race, compete myself (admittedly slower) then drive her and her stinkin' awards home.

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RV posted 2 years ago.

VTIRON wrote:
The real insult is when your wife is way faster and people that know us ask me, " so how did your wife's race go?" So what am I, dog crap? I had to drive my wife to the race, compete myself (admittedly slower) then drive her and her stinkin' awards home.

Rodney Dangerfield suffered!


That really must be pretty cool having your wife race as well. Mine is very supportive, but has other athletic interests.

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vollenda posted 2 years ago.

People are mostly supportive of me, especially the family. Usually I hear comments like "I told my wife/husband about you" or "Ok, what did you do this weekend?" (usually because I'm a sore & walking funny). :rolleyes:

Last week, one of our new employees asked me (with a distasteful expression on her face) why I dress funny and wear that loud jacket (my cycling gear) and did I think it looked good. I said yes, because it kept me from getting hit by cars!!! That shut her up.

But my favorite comment this week was "I rode my bike this weekend and I made a vow to ride it everyday." from someone I've been encouraging to ride for a while. Now if I could just get him to wear a helmet. :(

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trainDaBrain posted 2 years ago.

VTIRON wrote:
The real insult is when your wife is way faster and people that know us ask me, " so how did your wife's race go?" So what am I, dog crap? I had to drive my wife to the race, compete myself (admittedly slower) then drive her and her stinkin' awards home.

That's awesome.

I don't normally get the wierd questions, but usually any talk of triathlons brings up Kona in some way.

Bike commuting has garnered more strange comments than anything else. Mostly because I'm the only guy wearing lycra walking into the office. I even have some converts! My neighbor started riding his bike, and now two other people at my work are purchasing equipment and getting ready to ride at spring!

It's nice to be an ambassador for crazy-town now and then. :)

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Iron Man posted 2 years ago.

dr_rios_ec wrote:
I got the same comment by my grandma a few weeks ago....
She said to my dad that she is worried...because, I don´t go out much...as her other grandkids....
My friends...they just think I am nuts....big time....

My university friends dont understand why i want to go to bed at 9pm on friday so i can get up at 5am for my long ride. I find only triathletes understand the reason. so i dont try to explain i just say "you would not understand"
intersesting comments i have gotten

1. your nuts
2. you must love pain
3. my car costs less than your bike!
4. why would you want to do a swim and a bike before a run and why would you want to run anywhere?
5. i guess you dont have a girl friend.

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catwood posted 2 years ago.

I just take it as a complement when my non athlete friends say that I'm insane. Then I try to recruit everyone I know to do triathlons with me and love it when I succeed. I do get the why are you going to be at 9 or 10 on a friday or saturday night thing too. I guess my mom constantly asks me, "Are you sure that you aren't overdoing it, dear?" a lot. Most of my friends are either swimmers, bikers, or runners so they don't think I'm too crazy. I do get some strange comments about the bike jersey tan lines than I can never seem to get rid of...